2nd Child Fears….Only 2 Weeks And 2 Days To Go
Friday, September 3rd, 2010I feel blessed to have a loving husband, a healthy, prospering toddler and now a another baby on the way. However, as the birth of baby sister draws closer (2 weeks!) I’m feeling a strange mix of nervousness and excitement about having a new baby. Kinda like first day of school I guess.
What will she look like?
What will we call her?
I can’t wait to be reminded of the miracle of life. To know that two people that love each other can make a pure miracle.
How will her personality fit into our household? etc etc
I think all these things are very normal and they make you want to fast forward to the due date with the nod of the head or a ‘I Dream Of Jeanie’ twitch of the nose. But then the anxieties and fear kick in….
What will the labour be like? Can I go through all that again?
Will she have everything in all the right places and be born a healthy little girl?
Do I have enough love to give her?
As a parent will I be enough for her? Guiding her gently whilst letting her find her own path.
I dread the day that as a young woman both her and Goldilocks find out I’m actually just a person who makes mistakes like everyone else. The day my falls from grace aren’t easily covered up and they see through me and find I also have insecurities, fears and worries.
The birth of a child really is a miracle, but at the same time I can’t help but be scared and nervous incase I’m not up for the job! I’m reading an interesting book by Gisela Preuschoff called Raising Girls. Steve Biddulph of Raising Boys fame wrote the foreward which I found very interesting. He also discusses his fears of becoming a parent and offers some sage advice ‘what our kids will remember, and what will strengthen them, is the moments of closeness, honesty and peaceful times that we spend in amid the scramble of life: the parts we fence off and make special, where we refuse to dance to the commercial world’s tune, and build a garden for love to grow’.
With only 2 weeks to go, I hope I can build that garden…………tend to it…………and watch it bloom. Fingers crossed anyway!
Tags: Gisela Preuschoff, Raising Boys, Raising Girls, Steve Biddulph


Hip Mum Eugenie struck a cord with us when she said her babe wouldn’t take any of the many bottles she had tried (and she had tried a lot!!) so we thought she and her super cute babe were the perfect random review choice to try the
As a mother of 15 month old boy twins who are very fussy about their bottles and cups I was interested to see how they would respond to the Weilbaby products. I have tried alot of different training cups with the boys and have found that alot of them either leak, break, have fiddley valves to put in or are very difficult to drink from. I have also found that Jake and Alex will happily drink water from most of them but not milk.
Also, my husband found when washing the bottles by hand that milk gets stuck in ridge in the bottom of the cup if it isn’t rinsed straight away and the bottle brush we had couldn’t get in the groove to get it out. The only other thing I was wondering was if replacement spouts were available and if there was a hard spout available that you move onto as your child progresses.
Spring has sprung!

It’s no suprise that after only a few days in store the Bubeewrap is walking out the door here at The Hip Infant.

You know how it is, you surf the web and find ’stuff’, you know things you never knew existed, things that shock you, enlighten you, thrill you or whatever. Being the WWW you remain suspicious that what you are seeing is the truth as more often than not it is likely it’s a fiddled with image or some kind of set up image.





Happy Recipe Tuesday!

